Хорошие родители дают детям корни и крылья. 4 условия воспитания самостоятельного и счастливого ребенка

Vy ne obi͡azany bytʹ "idealʹnymi roditeli͡ami"! Chto deĭstvitelʹno vazhno - bytʹ ri͡adom s rebenkom, i ėto pod silu kazhdomu. V nash vek bezumnoĭ speshki i beskonechnogo zavisanii͡a v gadzhetakh naibolee t͡senno vremi͡a i vnimanie, kotoroe vy udeli͡aete deti͡am. Dėniėl Sigel i Tina Braĭson, avtory mnozhestva bestsellerov i vsemirno priznannye ėksperty po detskoĭ psikhologii, ubeditelʹno dokazyvai͡ut: imenno privi͡azannostʹ, vasha krepkai͡a svi͡azʹ s rebenkom - ėto osnova vospitanii͡a zdorovogo, schastlivogo, samostoi͡atelʹnogo i uspeshnogo cheloveka.Ispolʹzui͡a poslednie otkrytii͡a neĭrobiologii i illi͡ustrirui͡a nauchnye fakty realʹnymi situat͡sii͡ami, Sigel i Braĭson obʺi͡asni͡ai͡ut, kak imenno formiruetsi͡a zdorovai͡a privi͡azannostʹ.Dli͡a nee neobkhodimy 4 vazhneĭshikh uslovii͡a:• fizicheskai͡a i psikhologicheskai͡a bezopasnostʹ rebenka;• vnimanie k ėmot͡sii͡am deteĭ, bez perekli͡uchenii͡a na smartfon ili lichnye dela;• uteshenie v trudnye momenty;• nadezhnostʹ i doverie.Vy poĭmete, kak ezhednevno, nezametno i shag za shagom vystraivaete svoi otnoshenii͡a s detʹmi i chto li͡ubye oshibki i oploshnosti mozhno ispravitʹ, glavnoe - bytʹ ri͡adom.

You don't have to be "perfect parents"! What is really important is to be close to the child, and everyone can do it. In our age of insane haste and endless hanging in gadgets, the most valuable time and attention you give to children. Daniel Siegel and Tina Bryson, authors of many bestsellers and internationally recognized experts in child psychology, convincingly prove that it is attachment, your strong connection with your child, that is the basis for raising a healthy, happy, independent and successful person.Using the latest discoveries of neuroscience and illustrating scientific facts with real situations, Siegel and Bryson explain exactly how healthy attachment is formed.It requires 4 essential conditions:* physical and psychological safety of the child;• attention to the emotions of children, without switching to a smartphone or personal affairs• * consolation in difficult moments;• reliability and trust.You will understand how you build your relationships with children every day, imperceptibly and step by step, and that any mistakes and missteps can be corrected, the main thing is to be there.