50 великих книг о любви. Самые важные книги об отношениях с партнером и самим собой

Vo vse vremena li͡ubovʹ byla glavnym istochnikom nashego schastʹi͡a, vdokhnovenii͡a i odnovremenno dushevnoĭ boli. Vedʹ malo naĭti i raspoznatʹ tu samui͡u nastoi͡ashchui͡u li͡ubovʹ, ee eshche nuzhno ne razrushitʹ."50 velikikh knig o li͡ubvi" - ėto kratkiĭ obzor samykh vazhnykh knig po psikhologii otnosheniĭ muzhchiny i zhenshchiny: ot "Pi͡ati i͡azykov li͡ubvi" Gėri Chepmena do "Pravo na 'levo'" Ėster Perelʹ.Vse idei i kont͡sept͡sii izlozheny prosto i sistemno. Ėta kniga podarit ne tolʹko "li͡ubovnoe nastroenie", ona pokazhet, kak:- otlichitʹ li͡ubovʹ ot zavisimosti;- poni͡atʹ, podkhodite li vy drug drugu;- perezhitʹ boleznennyĭ razryv otnosheniĭ i poli͡ubitʹ sebi͡a;- sozdatʹ prochnyĭ li͡ubovnyĭ soi͡uz;- sberechʹ otnoshenii͡a i pronesti li͡ubovʹ cherez vsi͡u zhiznʹ.V pomoshchʹ li͡ubi͡ashchim serdt͡sam - luchshie proizvedenii͡a, posvi͡ashchennye psikhologicheskim aspektam li͡ubovnykh otnosheniĭ: ot klassicheskikh issledovaniĭ do sovremennykh nauchnykh otkrytiĭ.T͡SITATY:"Chtoby sokhranitʹ li͡ubovʹ, pochti vsem nam pridetsi͡a vyuchitʹ eshche odin i͡azyk li͡ubvi. Nelʹzi͡a polagatʹsi͡a na rodnoĭ i͡azyk, kogda nash sputnik ego ne ponimaet. Esli my khotim, chtoby on pochuvstvoval nashu li͡ubovʹ, my dolzhny rasskazatʹ o neĭ na ego i͡azyke". - GĖRI ChEPMEN: "Pi͡atʹ i͡azykov li͡ubvi""Schastlivye pary ne umnee, ne bogache i ne prozorlivee. Odnako ikh negativnye mysli v otnoshenii drug druga (kotorye estʹ u vsekh par bez iskli͡uchenii͡a) nikogda ne berut verkh nad pozitivnymi. Ėto to, chto i͡a nazyvai͡u ėmot͡sionalʹno-intellektualʹnym brakom". - DZhON GOTTMAN: "7 print͡sipov schastlivogo braka, ili ėmot͡sionalʹnyĭ intellekt v li͡ubvi"

At all times, love has been the main source of our happiness, inspiration and at the same time heartache. After all, it is not enough to find and recognize that very true love, it still needs not to be destroyed."50 Great Books about love" is a brief overview of the most important books on the psychology of relationships between men and women: from "Five Languages of Love" by Gary Chapman to "Right to 'Left'" by Esther Perel.All ideas and concepts are presented simply and systematically. This book will not only give you a "loving mood", it will show you how to:- distinguish love from addiction;- understand whether you are suitable for each other;- survive a painful breakup of a relationship and fall in love with yourself;- to create a lasting love union;- to preserve relationships and carry love through life.To help loving hearts — the best works devoted to the psychological aspects of love relationships: from classical studies to modern scientific discoveries.quotes:"To preserve love, almost all of us will have to learn another language of love. You can't rely on your native language when our companion doesn't understand it. If we want him to feel our love, we must tell about it in his language." — GARY CHAPMAN: "Five Languages of Love""Happy couples are not smarter, richer or more visionary. However, their negative thoughts about each other (which all couples have without exception) never take precedence over positive ones. This is what I call an emotional-intellectual marriage." — JOHN GOTTMAN: "7 principles of a happy marriage, or emotional intelligence in love"