Мама сына. Как стать для него опорой и той, кому он по-настоящему доверяет

Kazhdai͡a mama khochet, chtoby ee syn vyros schastlivym, uverennym i otvetstvennym. No iz luchshikh pobuzhdeniĭ my chasto staraemsi͡a napravli͡atʹ i kontrolirovatʹ vmesto togo, chtoby slyshatʹ i ponimatʹ. Ėta kniga pomozhet po-novomu vzgli͡anutʹ na otnoshenii͡a mezhdu materʹi͡u i synom: ne cherez prizmu vospitanii͡a, a cherez uvazhenie i doverie. Ėmerson Ėggerikh, avtor mezhdunarodnogo bestsellera po psikhologii otnosheniĭ "Li͡ubovʹ i uvazhenie", pokazyvaet, kak prostye slova, intonat͡sii i podderzhka sposobny ukrepitʹ svi͡azʹ i statʹ istochnikom vnutrenneĭ sily dli͡a malʹchika. Vy uznaete, kak:- govoritʹ tak, chtoby syn vas slyshal, dazhe v trudnye periody;- khvalitʹ bez davlenii͡a i sravnenii͡a;- sokhrani͡atʹ uvazhenie k sebe, kogda syn protestuet;- ne poteri͡atʹ kontakt v podrostkovom vozraste;- sozdatʹ dli͡a syna prostranstvo, gde on mozhet bytʹ soboĭ. Ėto kniga o tom, kak statʹ dli͡a syna ne strogim nastavnikom, a mamoĭ, ri͡adom s kotoroĭ on uchitsi͡a slushatʹ, ponimatʹ i uvazhatʹ.

Every mother wants her son to grow up happy, confident and responsible. But with the best of intentions, we often try to guide and control instead of listening and understanding. This book will help to take a fresh look at the relationship between mother and son: not through the prism of upbringing, but through respect and trust. Emerson Eggerich, author of the international bestseller on relationship psychology "Love and Respect", shows how simple words, intonations and support can strengthen a bond and become a source of inner strength for a boy. You will learn how:- speak so that your son can hear you, even in difficult times;- to praise without pressure and comparison; - to maintain self-respect when the son protests;- don't lose touch during adolescence;- create a space for your son where he can be himself. This is a book about how to become a mother for your son, not a strict mentor, but a mother, next to whom he learns to listen, understand and respect.