Мама сына. Как стать для него опорой и той, кому он по-настоящему доверяет

Kajdaia mama hochet, chtobie ee sien vieros schastliviem, uverenniem i otvetstvenniem. No iz luchshih pobujdenii mie chasto staraemsia napravliat i kontrolirovat vmesto togo, chtobie slieshat i ponimat. Eta kniga pomojet po-novomu vzglianut na otnosheniia mejdu materu i sienom: ne cherez prizmu vospitaniia, a cherez uvajenie i doverie. Emerson Eggerih, avtor mejdunarodnogo bestsellera po psihologii otnoshenii «Lubov i uvajenie», pokazievaet, kak prostiee slova, intonacii i podderjka sposobnie ukrepit sviaz i stat istochnikom vnutrennei silie dlia malchika. Vie uznaete, kak:- govorit tak, chtobie sien vas slieshal, daje v trudniee periodie;- hvalit bez davleniia i sravneniia;- sohraniat uvajenie k sebe, kogda sien protestuet;- ne poteriat kontakt v podrostkovom vozraste;- sozdat dlia siena prostranstvo, gde on mojet biet soboi. Eto kniga o tom, kak stat dlia siena ne strogim nastavnikom, a mamoi, riadom s kotoroi on uchitsia slushat, ponimat i uvajat.

Every mother wants her son to grow up happy, confident and responsible. But with the best of intentions, we often try to guide and control instead of listening and understanding. This book will help to take a fresh look at the relationship between mother and son: not through the prism of upbringing, but through respect and trust. Emerson Eggerich, author of the international bestseller on relationship psychology "Love and Respect", shows how simple words, intonations and support can strengthen a bond and become a source of inner strength for a boy. You will learn how:- speak so that your son can hear you, even in difficult times;- to praise without pressure and comparison; - to maintain self-respect when the son protests;- don't lose touch during adolescence;- create a space for your son where he can be himself. This is a book about how to become a mother for your son, not a strict mentor, but a mother, next to whom he learns to listen, understand and respect.