Заново влюбиться друг в друга. Как сохранить любовь и близость на всю жизнь

Kogda-to vy ne mogli nagovoritʹsi͡a drug s drugom. A teperʹ razgovory svodi͡atsi͡a k bytu, obidam i vzaimnym pretenzii͡am? Kazhetsi͡a, chto li͡ubovʹ ushla, romantika zakonchilasʹ, a mezhdu vami vyrosla nevidimai͡a stena?Bolʹshinstvo par uvereny, chto okhlazhdenie chuvstv oznachaet konet͡s otnosheniĭ. No parnyĭ terapevt Klod Parizo pokazyvaet: krizis chasto stanovitsi͡a nachalom novogo ėtapa blizosti - bolee glubokoĭ, osoznannoĭ i nastoi͡ashcheĭ.V osnove knigi lezhit Imago-terapii͡a - odin iz samykh izvestnykh i ėffektivnykh podkhodov k vosstanovlenii͡u otnosheniĭ, sozdannyĭ Kharvillom Khendriksom i Khelen LaKelli Khant, avtorami mirovogo bestsellera "Li͡ubovʹ na vsi͡u zhiznʹ. Rukovodstvo dli͡a par". Ėtot metod pomogaet uvidetʹ skrytye prichiny konfliktov, luchshe poni͡atʹ sebi͡a i partnera i nauchitʹsi͡a stroitʹ otnoshenii͡a, v kotorykh estʹ mesto li͡ubvi, doverii͡u i vzaimnomu uvazhenii͡u.V ėtoĭ knige vy uznaete, kak:• raspoznatʹ skrytye prichiny postoi͡annykh konfliktov;• nauchitʹsi͡a slyshatʹ i ponimatʹ partnera bez kritiki i zashchity;• vernutʹ ėmot͡sionalʹnui͡u blizostʹ i chuvstvo bezopasnosti;• sokhranitʹ seksualʹnoe priti͡azhenie spusti͡a gody;• obsuzhdatʹ slozhnye temy tak, chtoby oni sblizhali, a ne razrushali otnoshenii͡a.

Once upon a time, you couldn't talk enough with each other. And now the conversations are reduced to everyday life, insults and mutual claims? It seems that love is gone, romance is over, and an invisible wall has grown between you?Most couples believe that the cooling of feelings means the end of the relationship. But couples therapist Claude Parisot shows that a crisis often becomes the beginning of a new stage of intimacy — deeper, more conscious and real.The book is based on Imago therapy, one of the most famous and effective approaches to relationship recovery, created by Harvill Hendricks and Helen LaKelli Hunt, authors of the world bestseller "Love for Life. A guide for couples." This method helps to see the hidden causes of conflicts, better understand yourself and your partner, and learn how to build relationships in which there is a place for love, trust, and mutual respect.In this book, you will learn how:• recognize the hidden causes of constant conflicts; • learn to hear and understand your partner without criticism and protection;• Bring back emotional intimacy and a sense of security;• maintain sexual attraction years later;• discuss difficult topics so that they bring the relationship closer rather than destroy it.