В постели с абьюзером: любовь, идентичная натуральной

Tani͡a Tank, @tanja.tank, avtor trilogii 'Boĭsi͡a, i͡a s toboĭ. Strashnai͡a kniga o rokovykh i neotrazimykh', vedushchai͡a blogov ob abʹi͡uze v Instagrame i Zhivom Zhurnale:'Razbitye serdt͡sa, obmanutye nadezhdy, ti͡azhelye rasstavanii͡a… Kazhdyĭ denʹ chitateli prisylai͡ut mne dramatichnye ispovedi, v kotorykh zadai͡ut odni i te zhe voprosy - obshchie dli͡a vsekh, u kogo "slozhnai͡a" li͡ubovʹ s "protivorechivym" chelovekom.V ėtoĭ knige i͡a sobrala i prokommentirovala 150 tipovykh situat͡siĭ iz vashikh pisem. Pri͡amo seĭchas otkryvaĭte oglavlenie i ishchite "svoi͡u"!'On meni͡a li͡ubit, no izmeni͡aetOn meni͡a li͡ubit, no edko kritikuetOn meni͡a li͡ubit, no kontroliruet kazhdyĭ shagOn meni͡a li͡ubit, no u nas chto ni denʹ, to ssoraOn meni͡a li͡ubit, no chasto ukhodit i… vnovʹ vozvrashchaetsi͡aOn meni͡a li͡ubit, no i͡a chuvstvui͡u sebi͡a vinovatoĭ neponi͡atno v chem...On meni͡a li͡ubit, no i͡a ne vylezai͡u iz depressiiMne s nim ochenʹ khorosho, no… ochenʹ plokhoStop! A ty uverena, chto ėto li͡ubovʹ, a ne opasnai͡a falʹshivka, kotorui͡u tebe vsuchili pod vidom nastoi͡ashchego chuvstva? I͡Adovityĭ surrogat, otravli͡ai͡ushchiĭ tvoi͡u zhiznʹ?Li͡ubovʹ ili feĭk? Smotri ne pereputaĭ!

Tanja Tank, @tanja.tank, author of the 'be Afraid, I'm with you' trilogy. A scary book about the fatal and irresistible', leading blogs about abuse in Instagram and LiveJournal:'Broken hearts, disappointed hopes, hard breakups… Every day, readers send me dramatic confessions in which they ask the same questions — common to all those who have a “complicated” love with a “contradictory” person.In this book, I have collected and commented on 150 typical situations from your emails. Right now, open the table of contents and search for "your"!'He loves me, but changes me, loves me, but bitterly criticizes me, but controls every step, loves me, but every day we have a quarrel, loves me, but often leaves and ... comes back again, loves me, but I feel guilty about something I don't know what...He loves me, but I do not get out of depressiona with him very well, but... very blogstop! Are you sure that this is love and not a dangerous fake that you've been forced into under the guise of real feeling? A toxic surrogate poisoning your life?Love or fake? Don't mix it up!