Девочка на шаре. Когда страдание становится образ.

Roman i psikhologicheskai͡a statʹi͡a, predstavlennye v knige, illi͡ustrirui͡ut razlichnye proi͡avlenii͡a mazokhizma v nasheĭ kulʹture.Mazokhistami, s psikhologicheskoĭ tochki zrenii͡a, prini͡ato nazyvatʹ li͡udeĭ, kotorye privykli stradatʹ radi drugikh: k primeru, otkladyvatʹ reshenie sobstvennykh problem ili vovse ne zamechatʹ ikh, zanimai͡asʹ vmesto ėtogo sudʹbami drugikh. Esli vam inogda khochetsi͡a sygratʹ znachitelʹnui͡u rolʹ v chuzhoĭ sudʹbe, snachala zadumaĭtesʹ, naskolʹko ne okazyvaetsi͡a obdelennoĭ pri ėtom vasha sobstvennai͡a sudʹba. Esli vy ne verite v to, chto imenno vy i͡avli͡aetesʹ tvort͡sami sobstvennoĭ zhizni, vy provot͡siruete drugikh li͡udeĭ pouchastvovatʹ v vasheĭ zhizni na ikh usmotrenie.Dli͡a shirokogo kruga chitateleĭ.

The psychological novel and the article presented in the book illustrate the various manifestations of masochism in our culture.Masochists, from a psychological point of view, it is customary to call people who used to suffer for the sake of others: for example, to postpone solving their own problems or even to ignore them, focusing instead the fates of others. If you sometimes want to play a significant role in the fate of someone else's, first think about how is not deprived of your own destiny. If you don't believe that you are the Creator of your own life, you provoke other people to participate in your life at their discretion.For a wide range of readers.