Думая руками. Удивительная наука о том, как жесты формируют наши мысли

'Kak raspoznatʹ iskrennie chuvstva i ėmot͡sii sobesednika?' 'Kak sdelatʹ, chtoby li͡udi vsegda vas pravilʹno ponimali?' 'Kak idealʹno vesti sebi͡a na publike v konfliktnykh situat͡sii͡akh?' V pervui͡u ocheredʹ v golovu prikhodit prostoĭ otvet: 'Nuzhny supersposobnosti!' Kognitivnyĭ psikholog Sʹi͡uzen Goldin-Mėdou schitaet, chto takie supersposobnosti estʹ u kazhdogo i sekret ikh pri͡achetsi͡a sovsem ri͡adom - v nashikh rukakh. Pogruzitesʹ vmeste s avtorom v podrobnoe i glubokoe issledovanie zhestikuli͡at͡sii i ee roli v obshchenii. Uznaĭte, kogda neobkhodimo datʹ voli͡u zhestam, a kogda, naoborot, - rasslablenno slozhitʹ ruki na koleni͡akh. Nauchitesʹ upravli͡atʹ zhestami, chtoby provoditʹ uspeshnye peregovory s kollegami i biznes-partnerami, znatʹ, kogda sobesednik chto-to skryvaet ot vas, i videtʹ nastoi͡ashchie ėmot͡sii okruzhai͡ushchikh vas li͡udeĭ.

'How to recognize the sincere feelings and emotions of the interlocutor?' 'How do you make sure that people always understand you correctly?' 'How is it ideal to behave in public in conflict situations?"_First of all, a simple answer comes to mind: 'Superpowers are needed!' Cognitive psychologist Susan Goldin-Meadow believes that everyone has such superpowers and their secret is hiding very close - in our hands. Immerse yourself with the author in a detailed and in-depth study of gesticulation and its role in communication. Find out when it is necessary to give free rein to gestures, and when, on the contrary, to relax your hands in your lap. Learn to control gestures in order to conduct successful negotiations with colleagues and business partners, to know when the interlocutor is hiding something from you, and to see the real emotions of the people around you.