Тайная опора: привязанность в жизни ребенка

"Vse my rodom iz detstva", - pisal odin izvestnyĭ frant͡suzskiĭ pisatelʹ i letchik. Odnako, prezhde chem dostichʹ samostoi͡atelʹnosti, my edva li mozhem oboĭtisʹ bez vzroslykh. V svoeĭ novoĭ knige Li͡udmila Petranovskai͡a, osnovyvai͡asʹ na nauchnoĭ teorii privi͡azannosti, legko i dostupno rasskazyvaet o roli roditeleĭ na puti k vzroslenii͡u: "Kak zavisimostʹ i bespomoshchnostʹ prevrashchai͡utsi͡a v zrelostʹ, kak nashi li͡ubovʹ i zabota god za godom formirui͡ut v rebenke taĭnui͡u oporu, na kotoroĭ, kak na sterzhne, derzhitsi͡a ego lichnostʹ?" Prochitav ėtu knigu, vy ne tolʹko smozhete uvidetʹ, chto na samom dele stoit za detskimi "kaprizami", "izbalovannostʹi͡u", "agressieĭ", "vrednym kharakterom", no i poni͡atʹ, chem pomochʹ svoemu rebenku, chtoby on ros i razvivalsi͡a ne trati͡a sily na borʹbu za vashu li͡ubovʹ.

"We all come from childhood," wrote one famous French writer and pilot. However, before we achieve independence, we can hardly do without adults. In her new book, Lyudmila Petranovskaya, based on the scientific theory of attachment, easily and easily talks about the role of parents on the way to adulthood: "how do dependence and helplessness turn into maturity, how our love and care form a secret support in the child, which, as a rod, holds his personality?» After reading this book, you will not only be able to see what is really behind children's "whims", "spoilt", "aggression", "harmful character", but also understand how to help your child to grow and develop without wasting energy fighting for your love.