Тонкое искусство пофигизма. Парадоксальный способ жить счастливо

Sovremennoe obshchestvo propagandiruet kulʹt uspekha: budʹ umnee, bogache, produktivnee - budʹ luchshe vsekh. Sot͡sseti izobilui͡ut istorii͡ami na temu, kak kakoĭ-to malet͡s pridumal prilozhenie i zarabotal kuchu deneg, statʹi͡ami v dukhe "Tysi͡acha i odin sposob bytʹ schastlivym", a foto vo frendlente sozdai͡ut vpechatlenie, chto okruzhai͡ushchie zhivut luchshe i interesnee, chem my. Odnako nasha zat͡siklennostʹ na pozitive i uspekhe lishʹ napominaet o tom, chego my ne dostigli, o mechtakh, kotorye ne sbylisʹ. Kak zhe statʹ po-nastoi͡ashchemu schastlivym? Populi͡arnyĭ bloger Mark Mėnson predlagaet svoĭ, originalʹnyĭ podkhod k ėtomu voprosu. Ego zhiznennai͡a filosofii͡a prosta - neobkhodimo nauchitʹsi͡a iskusstvu pofigizma. Opredeliv to, do chego vam deĭstvitelʹno estʹ delo, nuzhno umetʹ naplevatʹ na vse vtorostepennoe, zabitʹ na trudnosti, poslatʹ k chertu chuzhoe mnenie i bytʹ gotovym vzgli͡anutʹ v lit͡so neudacham i pokazatʹ im sredniĭ palet͡s. V svoeĭ ostroumnoĭ knige, mgnovenno stavsheĭ bestsellerom № 1 v Amazon, cherez istorii zhiznennykh neuri͡adit͡s, provalov i lazh (kak svoikh, tak i izvestnykh li͡udeĭ) avtor rasskazyvaet, kak ovladetʹ ėtim tonkim iskusstvom pofigizma, zachem nuzhno bytʹ menee uverennym v sebe i chto print͡sip "Delaĭte khotʹ chto-nibudʹ" - otlichnai͡a motivat͡sii͡a. Ėta kniga pomozhet vam zhitʹ legko vopreki vsem trudnosti͡am, menʹshe volnovatʹsi͡a i poluchatʹ udovolʹstvie ot zhizni.

Modern society promotes the cult of success: be smarter, richer, more productive-be the best. Social networks are full of stories about how some kid came up with an app and made a lot of money, articles in the spirit of "A Thousand and One ways to be Happy", and photos in the friendlent create the impression that others live better and more interesting than we do. However, our obsession with positivity and success only reminds us of what we have not achieved, of dreams that have not come true. How to become truly happy? Popular blogger Mark Manson offers his own, original approach to this issue. His life philosophy is simple — you need to learn the art of pofigizma. Having identified what you really care about, you need to be able to ignore all the minor things, forget about the difficulties, send other people's opinions to hell, and be ready to face the failures and show them the middle finger. In his witty book, which instantly became the # 1 bestseller in Amazon, through the stories of life's troubles, failures and failures (both his own and famous people), the author tells how to master this subtle art of pofigizma, why you need to be less confident in yourself and that the principle of "Do something" is a great motivation. This book will help you live easily in spite of all the difficulties, worry less and enjoy life.