Но это не точно

Chto delat, esli rebenku staviat diagnoz so znakom voprosa, a tie odna s nim protiv vsego mira? Tolko iskat otvetie — i podderjku — samoi. «No eto ne tochno» Elenie Kumskovoi — pronzitelniei i jiznenniei roman o materinskoi zabote i lubvi. AnnotaciiaKatia polnostu posviashaet sebia vospitaniu malenkogo siena Stepie. Malchik prakticheski ne govorit, boitsia drugih detei i chujih ludei. Ves mir dlia nego — eto mama i lubimiee mashinki, kotoriee on gotov chasami rasstavliat v rovniee linii. Muj Kati ne viederjivaet ispietaniia otcovstvom i uhodit, ostavliaia ee odin na odin s isterikami siena. Posle cheredie vrachebnieh konsultacii Stepe staviat diagnoz so znakom voprosa — «rasstroistvo autisticheskogo spektra». Ne naidia oporie v medicinskih zaklucheniiah, Katia reshaet sama borotsia za siena, polagaias na materinskuu intuiciu. Istoriia Kati — eto ne istoriia isceleniia rebenka ot autizma, a istoriia obreteniia oporie i isceleniia ot odinochestva. «No eto ne tochno» — shemiashe-iskrennii i ochen jiznenniei roman o materinskoi lubvi i o tom, chto samiee tiajeliee ispietaniia mojno perejit, kogda nahodish teh, kto idet riadom po toi je trudnoi doroge, i chto nastoiashee schaste stroitsia na lubvi i umenii prinimat ne tolko ludei, no i sebia samogo. «Horoshaia literatura vsegda rabotaet so slojniemi temami, pozvoliaia chitateliam prokachivat svou empatiu, no delaet eto po-raznomu: odni knigi ostavliaut posle sebia voprosie i razmieshleniia, drugie — nadejdu i rasshirenie nashih jiznennieh gorizontov. Kniga Elenie Kumskovoi — vtorogo tipa: ee geroi uchatsia prinimat drugih i sebia, i eto umenie iavno prigoditsia kajdomu iz nas». Polina BoiarkinaO knige• Roman o materinskoi lubvi, sozvuchniei sobstvennomu opietu i perejivaniiam avtora — detskogo psihologa po obrazovaniu. • V centre povestvovaniia — malchik s rasstroistvom autisticheskogo spektra i ego mat, pietaushaiasia razobratsia v diagnoze. • O vajnosti i sile jenskoi podderjki i o trudnostiah, s kotoriemi roditeli detei s osobennostiami razvitiia stalkivautsia kajdiei den. • Vajniee socialniee temie podnimautsia v romane bez nadrieva i pafosa. • Oblojka ukrashena kartinoi hudojnicie Gali Popovoi «Moe serdce». Sovremenniei roman «No eto ne tochno» — gluboko psihologichnaia socialnaia proza dlia vseh, komu trebuetsia podderjka v trudnuu minutu i napominanie, chto lubiee trudnosti — eto ne konec, i vsegda naidutsia ludi, kotoriee idut toi je dorogoi. Otlichnaia kniga v podarok dlia lubitelei sovremennoi rossiiskoi prozie i poklonnikov knig Marii Metlickoi, «Posmotri na nego» Annie Starobinec i «Chujoi» Mashi Traub.

What should I do if a child is diagnosed with a question mark, and you are alone with him against the whole world? Just look for answers— and support—yourself. "But it's not for Sure" by Elena Kumskova is a poignant and vital novel about maternal care and love. Annotation Katya fully devotes herself to raising Stepa's young son. The boy hardly speaks, he is afraid of other children and strangers. For him, the whole world is his mother and his favorite cars, which he is ready to arrange in even lines for hours. Katya's husband cannot stand the test of fatherhood and leaves, leaving her alone with her son's tantrums. After a series of medical consultations, Stepa is diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder with a question mark. Unable to find support in medical reports, Katya decides to fight for her son herself, relying on her mother's intuition. Katya's story is not a story of a child's healing from autism, but a story of finding support and healing from loneliness. "But that's not for sure" is a heartbreakingly sincere and very vital novel about maternal love and the fact that the most difficult trials can be experienced when you find those who walk the same difficult road next to you, and that true happiness is built on love and the ability to accept not only people, but also yourself. "Good literature always works with complex topics, allowing readers to build their empathy, but it does so in different ways: some books leave behind questions and reflections, others hope and expand our horizons in life. Elena Kumskova's book is of the second type: her characters learn to accept others and themselves, and this skill is clearly useful to each of us." Polina Boyarkina in the book• A novel about maternal love, consonant with the author's own experience and the experiences of a child psychologist by training. • The story centers on a boy with an autism spectrum disorder and his mother, who is trying to figure out the diagnosis. • About the importance and power of women's support and the difficulties that parents of children with special needs face every day. Important social topics are raised in the novel without strain and pathos. • The cover is decorated with a painting by artist Gali Popova "My Heart". The modern novel "But it's not for Sure" is a deeply psychological social prose for everyone who needs support in difficult times and a reminder that any difficulties are not the end, and there will always be people who follow the same path. An excellent book as a gift for fans of modern Russian prose and fans of books by Maria Metlitskaya, "Look at Him" by Anna Starobinets and "Alien" by Masha Traub.