Но это не точно

Chto delatʹ, esli rebenku stavi͡at diagnoz so znakom voprosa, a ty odna s nim protiv vsego mira? Tolʹko iskatʹ otvety - i podderzhku - samoĭ. "No ėto ne tochno" Eleny Kumskovoĭ - pronzitelʹnyĭ i zhiznennyĭ roman o materinskoĭ zabote i li͡ubvi. Annotat͡sii͡aKati͡a polnostʹi͡u posvi͡ashchaet sebi͡a vospitanii͡u malenʹkogo syna Stepy. Malʹchik prakticheski ne govorit, boitsi͡a drugikh deteĭ i chuzhikh li͡udeĭ. Vesʹ mir dli͡a nego - ėto mama i li͡ubimye mashinki, kotorye on gotov chasami rasstavli͡atʹ v rovnye linii. Muzh Kati ne vyderzhivaet ispytanii͡a ott͡sovstvom i ukhodit, ostavli͡ai͡a ee odin na odin s isterikami syna. Posle cheredy vrachebnykh konsulʹtat͡siĭ Stepe stavi͡at diagnoz so znakom voprosa - "rasstroĭstvo autisticheskogo spektra". Ne naĭdi͡a opory v medit͡sinskikh zakli͡uchenii͡akh, Kati͡a reshaet sama borotʹsi͡a za syna, polagai͡asʹ na materinskui͡u intuit͡sii͡u. Istorii͡a Kati - ėto ne istorii͡a ist͡selenii͡a rebenka ot autizma, a istorii͡a obretenii͡a opory i ist͡selenii͡a ot odinochestva. "No ėto ne tochno" - shchemi͡ashche-iskrenniĭ i ochenʹ zhiznennyĭ roman o materinskoĭ li͡ubvi i o tom, chto samye ti͡azhelye ispytanii͡a mozhno perezhitʹ, kogda nakhodishʹ tekh, kto idet ri͡adom po toĭ zhe trudnoĭ doroge, i chto nastoi͡ashchee schastʹe stroitsi͡a na li͡ubvi i umenii prinimatʹ ne tolʹko li͡udeĭ, no i sebi͡a samogo. "Khoroshai͡a literatura vsegda rabotaet so slozhnymi temami, pozvoli͡ai͡a chitateli͡am prokachivatʹ svoi͡u ėmpatii͡u, no delaet ėto po-raznomu: odni knigi ostavli͡ai͡ut posle sebi͡a voprosy i razmyshlenii͡a, drugie - nadezhdu i rasshirenie nashikh zhiznennykh gorizontov. Kniga Eleny Kumskovoĭ - vtorogo tipa: ee geroi uchatsi͡a prinimatʹ drugikh i sebi͡a, i ėto umenie i͡avno prigoditsi͡a kazhdomu iz nas". Polina Boi͡arkinaO knige• Roman o materinskoĭ li͡ubvi, sozvuchnyĭ sobstvennomu opytu i perezhivanii͡am avtora - detskogo psikhologa po obrazovanii͡u. • V t͡sentre povestvovanii͡a - malʹchik s rasstroĭstvom autisticheskogo spektra i ego matʹ, pytai͡ushchai͡asi͡a razobratʹsi͡a v diagnoze. • O vazhnosti i sile zhenskoĭ podderzhki i o trudnosti͡akh, s kotorymi roditeli deteĭ s osobennosti͡ami razvitii͡a stalkivai͡utsi͡a kazhdyĭ denʹ. • Vazhnye sot͡sialʹnye temy podnimai͡utsi͡a v romane bez nadryva i pafosa. • Oblozhka ukrashena kartinoĭ khudozhnit͡sy Gali Popovoĭ "Moe serdt͡se". Sovremennyĭ roman "No ėto ne tochno" - gluboko psikhologichnai͡a sot͡sialʹnai͡a proza dli͡a vsekh, komu trebuetsi͡a podderzhka v trudnui͡u minutu i napominanie, chto li͡ubye trudnosti - ėto ne konet͡s, i vsegda naĭdutsi͡a li͡udi, kotorye idut toĭ zhe dorogoĭ. Otlichnai͡a kniga v podarok dli͡a li͡ubiteleĭ sovremennoĭ rossiĭskoĭ prozy i poklonnikov knig Marii Metlit͡skoĭ, "Posmotri na nego" Anny Starobinet͡s i "Chuzhoĭ" Mashi Traub.

What should I do if a child is diagnosed with a question mark, and you are alone with him against the whole world? Just look for answers— and support—yourself. "But it's not for Sure" by Elena Kumskova is a poignant and vital novel about maternal care and love. Annotation Katya fully devotes herself to raising Stepa's young son. The boy hardly speaks, he is afraid of other children and strangers. For him, the whole world is his mother and his favorite cars, which he is ready to arrange in even lines for hours. Katya's husband cannot stand the test of fatherhood and leaves, leaving her alone with her son's tantrums. After a series of medical consultations, Stepa is diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder with a question mark. Unable to find support in medical reports, Katya decides to fight for her son herself, relying on her mother's intuition. Katya's story is not a story of a child's healing from autism, but a story of finding support and healing from loneliness. "But that's not for sure" is a heartbreakingly sincere and very vital novel about maternal love and the fact that the most difficult trials can be experienced when you find those who walk the same difficult road next to you, and that true happiness is built on love and the ability to accept not only people, but also yourself. "Good literature always works with complex topics, allowing readers to build their empathy, but it does so in different ways: some books leave behind questions and reflections, others hope and expand our horizons in life. Elena Kumskova's book is of the second type: her characters learn to accept others and themselves, and this skill is clearly useful to each of us." Polina Boyarkina in the book• A novel about maternal love, consonant with the author's own experience and the experiences of a child psychologist by training. • The story centers on a boy with an autism spectrum disorder and his mother, who is trying to figure out the diagnosis. • About the importance and power of women's support and the difficulties that parents of children with special needs face every day. Important social topics are raised in the novel without strain and pathos. • The cover is decorated with a painting by artist Gali Popova "My Heart". The modern novel "But it's not for Sure" is a deeply psychological social prose for everyone who needs support in difficult times and a reminder that any difficulties are not the end, and there will always be people who follow the same path. An excellent book as a gift for fans of modern Russian prose and fans of books by Maria Metlitskaya, "Look at Him" by Anna Starobinets and "Alien" by Masha Traub.